There is an easy thing that guys may do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uneasy in any situation, it means that you are approaching this circumstance on too high a gradient. Rather than trying to escape from the situation, lower the gradient.
How do you define gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. By trying to go to the top of the ladder on your initial step, it will be extremely hard to accomplish, and you will fail. If you continue trying it over and over you will begin to build up a complex about failing, and soon not make an effort anymore.
By trying to jump up five or six steps on your initial try, it will also be frightening -- not necessarily impossible but terrifying. And the probability is that if you have no experience leaping that high you will fail .
The best tactic is to take the first step and then progress one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable route to climb a ladder.
While I was a young man I would observe a girl I was attracted to and believed I had to tell her how much I liked her right away. Well that was jumping up several steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The first step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get confident just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as step two when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or comment on something that she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is taking a look at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Familiarize yourself with her before you decide that you like her.
Needless to say, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are good basics to begin with. If you use gradients ultimately you will learn how to meet women.
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